Some days, for absolutely no reason, my anxiety kicks into high gear. Today would be one of them. i don't know why, it just did. My stomach is in knots and I am feeling very very shaky. I have 3 lessons like normal so that isn't it. We had a good weekend, so I have no idea what is up with me. Sometimes, it just happens this way. There isn't anything I can do about, not really. I try to relax, but it doesn't happen. Maybe by tonight it will be better.
I would have to say, outside of the pain, anxiety is the 2nd thing I hate most about fibro because I can't control it. I can't go to bed early or take a nap and improve it that way. I do take medicine and that helps most of the time except for days like this.
So far, my 4:30 has seemed to have forgotten about her piano lesson. Sad face. I will call her mom for a make up lesson later this evening. She does do make up lessons so that is good. I really like this student a lot. She is such a sweet girl and a good pianist.
Peony is lying on the floor next to me. She is such a comfort. Oh, something cute she did yesterday. I decided to go to Starbucks and get a small Vanilla Bean drink. Well, I learned that Peony looooves whip cream. To the point that she actually had some of my drink. Literally. I put my drink with my straw in my cup holder and when I went to take a drink, my straw was gone and so was my whipped cream. Yeah, she took the straw and did who knows what and had my whipped cream. One drink down the tubes. Never will I go to Starbucks with the little Peony in the car with me again. It was funny though although I really wanted that drink!
Tuesday, May 26, 2015
Sunday, May 17, 2015
Fibro Awareness Day!
May 12 is Fibromyalgia Awareness Day. Every year or most every year, our Michigan group puts on a conference. I wasn't able to attend this year as I had teaching commitments that really couldn't get out of. I am sure it went wonderfully and people learned an awful lot. I am meeting one of my friends who went and was on the staff so I will be hearing about the latest updates so that is good.
My journey is so familiar to everyone I know who has fibro. I actually had my first flare up at 17 years old. I stayed home from school for about 6 weeks. The school threatened to make me take my junior year over. Momma argued with them and won. I am not surprised. They just couldn't out argue the major. (My momma was a major in the Canadian Army) Trust me, no one messed with the major, especially us kids, well me. My brothers messed with her a lot. Anyways, I digress. 6 weeks later, I went back to school to take exams and then was summer vacation. I was in marching band, choir, and on the Pom Pom squad at the time. I was also a dancer taking dance classes. I loved to dance but when the flair hit, everything hurt.
After that, I was fine for a couple of years except for headaches that happened quite often and the occasional unexplained pain. I didn't really start developing bad headaches until about 21 years old when I had my first long term headache. I was in college at Wayne State University majoring in music. I was still dancing at my dance studio, both teaching and taking classes. Overall, I danced about 5 to 6 hours a night during the week and about 6 to 7 hours on Saturday while working at Arby's on Sunday. I had a bad headache for 6 months straight. i missed classes when it was super bad, I missed dance classes, I missed work, it was awful. Mom took me to a few doctors, they didn't say much. Mom finally stopped because there wasn't anything they gave me that worked. Nothing stopped the headache until one day it was gone. We were like, that is really weird, but okay, it is gone, let's go with that so we did. Back to classes in school, back to dance, back to work. No problem for a few more years until I graduated from WSU. Three months after graduating, the unexplained pain was back, the headache was back. I was only teaching at this point. The dance studio had closed and I was looking for a new one until the pain hit. We decided to look in the fall since this was summer and I was in so much pain. We didn't know what to do! Mom took me back to doctor after doctor. My doctor didn't know what to do. The only doctor that would have was hers, only we didn't think to take me there. Hindsight is so 20/20! After the last doctor told my mother I was emotional disturbed and only wanted her attention (she was furious at this) we stopped going and figured we were on our own. Test and test were negative except for the initial arthritis test. Further arthritis tests were negative. Mom said I should rest unless I am teaching, so I did. I rested and rested and rested. I would get up in the morning with her (well, to me the middle of the night since she got up at 5 am) and got showered and dressed. I then ate breakfast and went back to bed. I got up for lunch and went back to bed. The joke in the house was if I was home and you didn't know where I was I must be in bed. It wasn't funny to Momma and me. After a few months of resting and getting worse momma said this isn't working. So she tried something new. We tried exercising. She would still have me get up early but before I got out of bed she would rub my legs and do leg lifts with them. Also, I had gained weight because of stopping dance. You can't go from dancing as much as I did to practically bedridden and not gain weight. It is impossible so add the extra pounds on top of the pain. then she would help me up and move my arms. this helped. I still had pain, but it was beginning to be manageable. I could do enough where I could work at home with another job and teach in the afternoon and evening.
We did this for several years until I got vasculitis. I got vasculitis in March of 2003. It starts off like you think you are getting a cold. You get a runny nose. One like you have never had. It constantly and I mean constantly runs. I literally woke every couple hours to blow my nose. Then the headache starts, then the rash. The rash is where the blood vessels are inflamed and pushing up against your skin. It is extremely painful. Add this to fibro and well yeah, you get the picture. It also affects the palms of your hands and the soles of your feet. It is hard to walk because the soles of your feet hurt to put pressure on. Closing your hands hurt because of the pain your palms have. For some reason, I will never know, I was lucky, so lucky that I will forever be so grateful, the vasculitis left my body. It usually doesn't. It takes about 3 to 4 months to flare up and down and then it starts all over again. For me, I just had one flare up and it went. I am so thankful about that.
What it did leave me with was a worse case of fibro. Because I was having more pain issues and we weren't sure what it was, I didn't think it was the vasculitis but I didn't know. I chose to go to the vasculitis center at the Cleveland Clinic. Mom and I drove there and we stayed overnight because we had an early appointment. They were awesome. I had CT scans and X-Rays done. When I was with the doctor and the physician assistant, they answered all my questions. We were with them for about 45 minutes. The said they believed that the vasculitis was gone. Finally, I asked, then what is it? I was stiff in the morning, I ached all over, all day, and so on. they asked questions and did the trigger point test. (I didn't know that is what it was) I jumped at pretty much all of them. Then they felt my face. Whoa, that hurt so much. That was when I was diagnosed with the Fibro. The doctor sent a letter to my doctor (who was also momma's doctor, you know the one from years ago) and he asked why did I not ever tell him. I told him what had happened. He said we couldn't have been dealing with this years ago instead of just now. Yup, I felt like an idiot. But we had a diagnosed and that was what was important. Finally, a name to know what was wrong with me. I finally felt like I wasn't faking it even though I never had. Mom was relieved, I was relieved. My brothers were like, you mean there really is something wrong with her? Wow, who knew? Mom said, I did. They never bothered me about that again. It is such a relief when you get a diagnosed. I felt like I had something to work with. I knew there would be info about it because I had a good friend who has it also. I went to a conference. I bought books. I read whatever I could about it. I just kept reading and reading until I had a plan to follow.
Fibro Day is so important to let people know about this so they know they are not crazy and losing their minds. That there really is something wrong with them and what they can do to help themselves. It is pretty well known now compared to 12 years ago when I was diagnosed and definitely from when one of my good friends was diagnosed. So let's celebrate the day with lots of info for people!
My journey is so familiar to everyone I know who has fibro. I actually had my first flare up at 17 years old. I stayed home from school for about 6 weeks. The school threatened to make me take my junior year over. Momma argued with them and won. I am not surprised. They just couldn't out argue the major. (My momma was a major in the Canadian Army) Trust me, no one messed with the major, especially us kids, well me. My brothers messed with her a lot. Anyways, I digress. 6 weeks later, I went back to school to take exams and then was summer vacation. I was in marching band, choir, and on the Pom Pom squad at the time. I was also a dancer taking dance classes. I loved to dance but when the flair hit, everything hurt.
After that, I was fine for a couple of years except for headaches that happened quite often and the occasional unexplained pain. I didn't really start developing bad headaches until about 21 years old when I had my first long term headache. I was in college at Wayne State University majoring in music. I was still dancing at my dance studio, both teaching and taking classes. Overall, I danced about 5 to 6 hours a night during the week and about 6 to 7 hours on Saturday while working at Arby's on Sunday. I had a bad headache for 6 months straight. i missed classes when it was super bad, I missed dance classes, I missed work, it was awful. Mom took me to a few doctors, they didn't say much. Mom finally stopped because there wasn't anything they gave me that worked. Nothing stopped the headache until one day it was gone. We were like, that is really weird, but okay, it is gone, let's go with that so we did. Back to classes in school, back to dance, back to work. No problem for a few more years until I graduated from WSU. Three months after graduating, the unexplained pain was back, the headache was back. I was only teaching at this point. The dance studio had closed and I was looking for a new one until the pain hit. We decided to look in the fall since this was summer and I was in so much pain. We didn't know what to do! Mom took me back to doctor after doctor. My doctor didn't know what to do. The only doctor that would have was hers, only we didn't think to take me there. Hindsight is so 20/20! After the last doctor told my mother I was emotional disturbed and only wanted her attention (she was furious at this) we stopped going and figured we were on our own. Test and test were negative except for the initial arthritis test. Further arthritis tests were negative. Mom said I should rest unless I am teaching, so I did. I rested and rested and rested. I would get up in the morning with her (well, to me the middle of the night since she got up at 5 am) and got showered and dressed. I then ate breakfast and went back to bed. I got up for lunch and went back to bed. The joke in the house was if I was home and you didn't know where I was I must be in bed. It wasn't funny to Momma and me. After a few months of resting and getting worse momma said this isn't working. So she tried something new. We tried exercising. She would still have me get up early but before I got out of bed she would rub my legs and do leg lifts with them. Also, I had gained weight because of stopping dance. You can't go from dancing as much as I did to practically bedridden and not gain weight. It is impossible so add the extra pounds on top of the pain. then she would help me up and move my arms. this helped. I still had pain, but it was beginning to be manageable. I could do enough where I could work at home with another job and teach in the afternoon and evening.
We did this for several years until I got vasculitis. I got vasculitis in March of 2003. It starts off like you think you are getting a cold. You get a runny nose. One like you have never had. It constantly and I mean constantly runs. I literally woke every couple hours to blow my nose. Then the headache starts, then the rash. The rash is where the blood vessels are inflamed and pushing up against your skin. It is extremely painful. Add this to fibro and well yeah, you get the picture. It also affects the palms of your hands and the soles of your feet. It is hard to walk because the soles of your feet hurt to put pressure on. Closing your hands hurt because of the pain your palms have. For some reason, I will never know, I was lucky, so lucky that I will forever be so grateful, the vasculitis left my body. It usually doesn't. It takes about 3 to 4 months to flare up and down and then it starts all over again. For me, I just had one flare up and it went. I am so thankful about that.
What it did leave me with was a worse case of fibro. Because I was having more pain issues and we weren't sure what it was, I didn't think it was the vasculitis but I didn't know. I chose to go to the vasculitis center at the Cleveland Clinic. Mom and I drove there and we stayed overnight because we had an early appointment. They were awesome. I had CT scans and X-Rays done. When I was with the doctor and the physician assistant, they answered all my questions. We were with them for about 45 minutes. The said they believed that the vasculitis was gone. Finally, I asked, then what is it? I was stiff in the morning, I ached all over, all day, and so on. they asked questions and did the trigger point test. (I didn't know that is what it was) I jumped at pretty much all of them. Then they felt my face. Whoa, that hurt so much. That was when I was diagnosed with the Fibro. The doctor sent a letter to my doctor (who was also momma's doctor, you know the one from years ago) and he asked why did I not ever tell him. I told him what had happened. He said we couldn't have been dealing with this years ago instead of just now. Yup, I felt like an idiot. But we had a diagnosed and that was what was important. Finally, a name to know what was wrong with me. I finally felt like I wasn't faking it even though I never had. Mom was relieved, I was relieved. My brothers were like, you mean there really is something wrong with her? Wow, who knew? Mom said, I did. They never bothered me about that again. It is such a relief when you get a diagnosed. I felt like I had something to work with. I knew there would be info about it because I had a good friend who has it also. I went to a conference. I bought books. I read whatever I could about it. I just kept reading and reading until I had a plan to follow.
Fibro Day is so important to let people know about this so they know they are not crazy and losing their minds. That there really is something wrong with them and what they can do to help themselves. It is pretty well known now compared to 12 years ago when I was diagnosed and definitely from when one of my good friends was diagnosed. So let's celebrate the day with lots of info for people!
Sunday, May 3, 2015
Sunday - a day of rest????
It has been a busy day so far. I had a meeting with the music association I belong too. It wasn't too long and it went well. Unlike some of the old ones that would last for hours and had much gossip (which I hate!) in them, these are efficiently done. We go through the minutes and boom, we are finished. I like that in a meeting. It was about the competition in February. We used to have them in March but now they are in February. I prefer them in March but I can't remember why they are in February now.
I came home and got Peony out of her crate so we could go and get gas. It was needed. She was so cute and pretty well behaved on the trip. I drive a bit extra to a place that pumps the gas for me. It is about 5 or so miles away instead of just the one right down the road, but since I can't stand the smell of gas, it makes me nauseous, I go the extra miles to have them pump the gas for me. Peony loves car rides so she doesn't mind the extra miles either.
I worked on some music when I came home and now, on to my post.
My head is a bit more sore than earlier today now. It is so nice out, with the temperature just beautiful and the sun shining. The clouds are puffy white ones and they look wonderful when I see them. However, along comes my headache stuff. I get so discouraged with them at times. I really do because they never seem to end. The daily one I have completely given up hope on the doctor ever being able to stop it or break it. The bad ones are better so I have hope that maybe they will one day not be so bad and be able to have more days in between without bad headaches. I sure hope so.
Well, I am going to lie down for a while. My head is just not happy with me at this point.
I came home and got Peony out of her crate so we could go and get gas. It was needed. She was so cute and pretty well behaved on the trip. I drive a bit extra to a place that pumps the gas for me. It is about 5 or so miles away instead of just the one right down the road, but since I can't stand the smell of gas, it makes me nauseous, I go the extra miles to have them pump the gas for me. Peony loves car rides so she doesn't mind the extra miles either.
I worked on some music when I came home and now, on to my post.
My head is a bit more sore than earlier today now. It is so nice out, with the temperature just beautiful and the sun shining. The clouds are puffy white ones and they look wonderful when I see them. However, along comes my headache stuff. I get so discouraged with them at times. I really do because they never seem to end. The daily one I have completely given up hope on the doctor ever being able to stop it or break it. The bad ones are better so I have hope that maybe they will one day not be so bad and be able to have more days in between without bad headaches. I sure hope so.
Well, I am going to lie down for a while. My head is just not happy with me at this point.
Wednesday, April 29, 2015
A better week!
The Earth Day Festival performance went well. There were a few glitches here and there plus a few things that could have been better but overall I was pleased with how the kids did. Bob did very well with his conducting for the first time and so did Acer, although he has conducted before. My anxiety is back to normal now so I am glad about that! It got very high and I had the worst time trying to sleep! However, now it is over and we are on to the spring concert material. Many students have picked out pieces. It looks like the concert will be in late May or June. I am fine with that so that is good. As long as we have one, that is all that matters.
My headaches are getting out of control again. The back of my head to the front of my head, at night, can be so painful. Fortunately, it isn't every night like it used to be, but I think my super high anxiety brought them back out of control. I hope that by this weekend they will be just like normal. That is my hope anyway.
My sinus infection has finally gotten better!! Yay! It lasted about 3 weeks and for the first time in forever, (hey, isn't that a song?? tee he he) I was actually knocked out for 5 days with it. I had to actually cancel 5 days of lessons! It was unreal! I am back to normal sinus wise and happy about that too. Part of the problem was lightheadedness. I was so lightheaded that I thought I was going to pass out if I sat up too long. I am fine now.
Spring has FINALLY sprung here! Yes, warmer weather! Hoodie weather! Short sleeve weather! Almost summer dress weather. I love how the flowers grow and the grass turns green! Just the new growth that comes with spring. We did have some snow this month but I hope that is over as Friday is May Day. I appreciate flowers and gardens, I just don't like to work in them at all. I do not have the knack of growing things like my mother had. She could just smile at a flower and it would grow.
Well, dinner is now here so I better wrap this up! Have a great day!
My headaches are getting out of control again. The back of my head to the front of my head, at night, can be so painful. Fortunately, it isn't every night like it used to be, but I think my super high anxiety brought them back out of control. I hope that by this weekend they will be just like normal. That is my hope anyway.
My sinus infection has finally gotten better!! Yay! It lasted about 3 weeks and for the first time in forever, (hey, isn't that a song?? tee he he) I was actually knocked out for 5 days with it. I had to actually cancel 5 days of lessons! It was unreal! I am back to normal sinus wise and happy about that too. Part of the problem was lightheadedness. I was so lightheaded that I thought I was going to pass out if I sat up too long. I am fine now.
Spring has FINALLY sprung here! Yes, warmer weather! Hoodie weather! Short sleeve weather! Almost summer dress weather. I love how the flowers grow and the grass turns green! Just the new growth that comes with spring. We did have some snow this month but I hope that is over as Friday is May Day. I appreciate flowers and gardens, I just don't like to work in them at all. I do not have the knack of growing things like my mother had. She could just smile at a flower and it would grow.
Well, dinner is now here so I better wrap this up! Have a great day!
Monday, April 20, 2015
back to blogging and the anxiety filled week ahead
My desktop computer has died. Yup, it breathed its last breath last month and well, needless to say I have been at my wits end with it. Everything was up to date on it, pictures, my bank account, my music catalogue, and oh my. Well, I have this beautiful little laptop that is one year older than the desktop and it still works. That is what I am currently using. I am dreading updating the catalogue though because it was up to date on the big one and not this one. If only it would start up once more so I can copy the catalogue and pictures. Alas, it won't.
Anyways, that was then, this is now.
My students are going to perform for the big Earth Day festival this weekend and my anxiety is rather high about it. We have never done this before. I am excited about it too, but nervous at the same time. We had the last rehearsal yesterday and things went okay. Nothing spectacular but not horrible either. Each knows what to work on so I feel that Sunday will go well, it's just that my anxiety is high. I am working on trying to stay calm and I am doing okay with that so that is good.
Spring is finally here!! We FINALLY seem to be done with snow. I am so tired of snow and cold. I got a sinus infection about a week and a half ago but it is almost gone so that is also good. I was out for 5 days. I just couldn't do anything but sleep, including teaching. Yup, I was that bad. I think I slept for 5 days straight. We had rehearsal for one of the days and Bob pretty much ran it for me. I just couldn't do it. I couldn't. I was so dizzy and foggy not to mention I felt horrible. I am on the mend and boy am I glad about that!
So, other than the Earth Day festival, not to much going on around here. Peony is doing well. She is such good company when I have high anxiety. She really is. Peony is such a beautiful dog. I love her so much.
I do hope you are enjoying your spring!!!
Anyways, that was then, this is now.
My students are going to perform for the big Earth Day festival this weekend and my anxiety is rather high about it. We have never done this before. I am excited about it too, but nervous at the same time. We had the last rehearsal yesterday and things went okay. Nothing spectacular but not horrible either. Each knows what to work on so I feel that Sunday will go well, it's just that my anxiety is high. I am working on trying to stay calm and I am doing okay with that so that is good.
Spring is finally here!! We FINALLY seem to be done with snow. I am so tired of snow and cold. I got a sinus infection about a week and a half ago but it is almost gone so that is also good. I was out for 5 days. I just couldn't do anything but sleep, including teaching. Yup, I was that bad. I think I slept for 5 days straight. We had rehearsal for one of the days and Bob pretty much ran it for me. I just couldn't do it. I couldn't. I was so dizzy and foggy not to mention I felt horrible. I am on the mend and boy am I glad about that!
So, other than the Earth Day festival, not to much going on around here. Peony is doing well. She is such good company when I have high anxiety. She really is. Peony is such a beautiful dog. I love her so much.
I do hope you are enjoying your spring!!!
Tuesday, January 13, 2015
bad headache day
Sometimes I wish I could just take a magic wand and wave it over my head to banish my headache away. It would be nice, wouldn't it? Of course, we all don't live in the world of Harry Potter or any other magical land so it is not possible. It is simply a fantasy.
Peony and I tried, well, okay, I tried to take another nap today but Peony kept me up. When everyone comes home I will try again. I will take my break through meds and head for bed. It just stinks that it is so bad. The back of my head has been the worst lately.
I do hope it gets better.
Peony helps my anxiety a lot. Here is another great picture of her. I hope you like it.
Peony and I tried, well, okay, I tried to take another nap today but Peony kept me up. When everyone comes home I will try again. I will take my break through meds and head for bed. It just stinks that it is so bad. The back of my head has been the worst lately.
I do hope it gets better.
Peony helps my anxiety a lot. Here is another great picture of her. I hope you like it.
Sunday, January 11, 2015
A New Year!
Happy New Year!!! I do hope that 2015 is a great year for all of us!!!
My goal is to work on anxiety. I am not saying that I am getting off my medication and will be able to control it all by my little onesy. No, no, no, I am saying that the part that I can control, I am going to work on controlling better. I am not going to try to get off my meds at this point. Without them, I would be a wreck and well I know it because when I lost the music store in August 2008, I literally, overnight had to stop most of my medicine due to no prescription coverage and that meant no anxiety medicine. I survived until right after my mother died. At that point, I was a mess, a complete and utter mess. I went to see my doctor and he prescribed me my medicine. He was floored that I stopped cold turkey and didn't tell him. He is such a caring doctor. He said I need to speak to him about these things because there are things we can do to help. Well, I didn't know and at the time, I was so depressed I couldn't think. I just couldn't. I know better now.
Christmas Eve and Day were wonderful. I spent them with Kathy and her family at her parents place. It was so lovely. I really enjoyed myself. The kids loved what they got and I got 2 gift certificates that I loved. It was awesome.
I was very wiped out between Christmas and New Year's. I slept quite a bit because of it. I think I had just pushed myself too much for the holiday getting everything done.
New Year's Eve, we had friends over and it was great fun. We played games and I managed to stay up until midnight. Of course, I was exhausted on New Year's Day but Peony and I took a nap and that took care of that.
Since then, I have been battling major fatigue again. I am not sure if it is because of the cold or what. I have had to give up caffeine as it adds to my stomach issues so I don't know if that is part of the problem or not. I no longer drink caffeinated drinks unless I am out and forget to order milk, which is what I prefer with a meal anyway but sometimes I forget. I still get an upset stomach every night even with the giving up of foods that cause acid so I am not sure what will happen when I see my tummy doctor next week. Perhaps we will be looking at my gallbladder? I just don't know. It is very hard to say.
Anyways, it has been a nice weekend. Kathy celebrated her birthday yesterday by not going out. I called to wish her happy birthday. It was very cold yesterday. We are in January and well, January can get rather chilly here. Stay warm!
My goal is to work on anxiety. I am not saying that I am getting off my medication and will be able to control it all by my little onesy. No, no, no, I am saying that the part that I can control, I am going to work on controlling better. I am not going to try to get off my meds at this point. Without them, I would be a wreck and well I know it because when I lost the music store in August 2008, I literally, overnight had to stop most of my medicine due to no prescription coverage and that meant no anxiety medicine. I survived until right after my mother died. At that point, I was a mess, a complete and utter mess. I went to see my doctor and he prescribed me my medicine. He was floored that I stopped cold turkey and didn't tell him. He is such a caring doctor. He said I need to speak to him about these things because there are things we can do to help. Well, I didn't know and at the time, I was so depressed I couldn't think. I just couldn't. I know better now.
Christmas Eve and Day were wonderful. I spent them with Kathy and her family at her parents place. It was so lovely. I really enjoyed myself. The kids loved what they got and I got 2 gift certificates that I loved. It was awesome.
I was very wiped out between Christmas and New Year's. I slept quite a bit because of it. I think I had just pushed myself too much for the holiday getting everything done.
New Year's Eve, we had friends over and it was great fun. We played games and I managed to stay up until midnight. Of course, I was exhausted on New Year's Day but Peony and I took a nap and that took care of that.
Since then, I have been battling major fatigue again. I am not sure if it is because of the cold or what. I have had to give up caffeine as it adds to my stomach issues so I don't know if that is part of the problem or not. I no longer drink caffeinated drinks unless I am out and forget to order milk, which is what I prefer with a meal anyway but sometimes I forget. I still get an upset stomach every night even with the giving up of foods that cause acid so I am not sure what will happen when I see my tummy doctor next week. Perhaps we will be looking at my gallbladder? I just don't know. It is very hard to say.
Anyways, it has been a nice weekend. Kathy celebrated her birthday yesterday by not going out. I called to wish her happy birthday. It was very cold yesterday. We are in January and well, January can get rather chilly here. Stay warm!
Friday, December 5, 2014
December!!!
I can't believe it is December. Somehow I think that every month, don't I? Well, time has a way of getting away from me.
As it is getting colder out here, my arthritis is not a happy camper. It isn't too bad right now but I can tell that it isn't happy about being cold. I will dress warmer and make sure that I am wearing weather appropriate clothing especially if I need a hoodie or not. I love my hoodies. They are the best. I have several that are just so cute. Three are from Disney. One is white and says Flirt. It is a Tinkerbell one. Another is Red and has Mickey on it. Lastly is gray and says one world, one mouse. I love that one. I love my hoodies!!! The other ones go with different jeans and outfits. They are different colors and are really cute too. i am definitely a hoodie girl.
I was taking some pictures of Peony yesterday. She is my favorite subject, I think. I have so many of her. I am sure there are days when she is like, seriously? Do you have to take my picture yet again? don't you have enough of them? I would say poor doggie, but I don't feel bad as I am the one who takes the constant pictures of her. My new phone plan lets me post directly on to facebook so I don't have to do what I used to, so that is good.
I have been really enjoying the chair in my room at night for reading. Peony has been coming in and vegging in my room with me. She plays with her toys and then sleeps a bit before bedtime. It is such a neat thing. She is such a cute dog. Peony will go between me and my housemates too, which I find interesting. I love how she does that. She also knows that I am partially deaf because when I don't go to the door to see who comes in and she does, she comes back to me to make sure I know someone came in. It is very reassuring to know she will not let anyone in without me knowing.
I am working on puppets for my students for their Christmas gifts. Tomorrow I will be heading to friends to work on them with them. It will be fun, I think. They are good kids and I think we will have fun making them. I never realized how much pinking material really hurts my arthritis in my hands, but boy oh boy, does it. I was going to finish it tonight, but now I am not. I will do it tomorrow. I need 29 puppets. I have 29 pieces of cloth, 30 balls for the head, and 100 sticks for the arms, so I am all set. I have the one puppet for display to show me what I want it to look like. I am very excited about this craft as it is totally different from anything I have ever done before and with the kids helping me, it should be lots of fun too. A few, I am only making kits for because on Christmas Day we will be making them together. That would be Kathy's children. This will give us something fun to do on Christmas Day besides play play play together. The kids are such nice kids. The Ellers, as we call them, are the ones helping me so in fact, they are making their own presents but they won't mind as they are wonderful children. I am excited to see them tomorrow.
I feel like my fibro is finally a bit more under control, pain wise. I am not so sure fatigue wise, because some days I am fine, others I am not. It all depends on the day. It really does. Adding in the one medicine in August when I was in the hospital really made a big difference to my headaches too. The Gabapentin seems to help a lot with the nerve pain I didn't even know I had. I do know now since I feel better, but I didn't then. My neck doesn't seem to hurt as much, which is a big relief.
Well, kids will be home soon and Acer will need his lesson. Calli and Acer are working on a duet for the concert so we will be practicing that too. I can't believe the recital is next Saturday! I feel so behind!
As it is getting colder out here, my arthritis is not a happy camper. It isn't too bad right now but I can tell that it isn't happy about being cold. I will dress warmer and make sure that I am wearing weather appropriate clothing especially if I need a hoodie or not. I love my hoodies. They are the best. I have several that are just so cute. Three are from Disney. One is white and says Flirt. It is a Tinkerbell one. Another is Red and has Mickey on it. Lastly is gray and says one world, one mouse. I love that one. I love my hoodies!!! The other ones go with different jeans and outfits. They are different colors and are really cute too. i am definitely a hoodie girl.
I was taking some pictures of Peony yesterday. She is my favorite subject, I think. I have so many of her. I am sure there are days when she is like, seriously? Do you have to take my picture yet again? don't you have enough of them? I would say poor doggie, but I don't feel bad as I am the one who takes the constant pictures of her. My new phone plan lets me post directly on to facebook so I don't have to do what I used to, so that is good.
I have been really enjoying the chair in my room at night for reading. Peony has been coming in and vegging in my room with me. She plays with her toys and then sleeps a bit before bedtime. It is such a neat thing. She is such a cute dog. Peony will go between me and my housemates too, which I find interesting. I love how she does that. She also knows that I am partially deaf because when I don't go to the door to see who comes in and she does, she comes back to me to make sure I know someone came in. It is very reassuring to know she will not let anyone in without me knowing.
I am working on puppets for my students for their Christmas gifts. Tomorrow I will be heading to friends to work on them with them. It will be fun, I think. They are good kids and I think we will have fun making them. I never realized how much pinking material really hurts my arthritis in my hands, but boy oh boy, does it. I was going to finish it tonight, but now I am not. I will do it tomorrow. I need 29 puppets. I have 29 pieces of cloth, 30 balls for the head, and 100 sticks for the arms, so I am all set. I have the one puppet for display to show me what I want it to look like. I am very excited about this craft as it is totally different from anything I have ever done before and with the kids helping me, it should be lots of fun too. A few, I am only making kits for because on Christmas Day we will be making them together. That would be Kathy's children. This will give us something fun to do on Christmas Day besides play play play together. The kids are such nice kids. The Ellers, as we call them, are the ones helping me so in fact, they are making their own presents but they won't mind as they are wonderful children. I am excited to see them tomorrow.
I feel like my fibro is finally a bit more under control, pain wise. I am not so sure fatigue wise, because some days I am fine, others I am not. It all depends on the day. It really does. Adding in the one medicine in August when I was in the hospital really made a big difference to my headaches too. The Gabapentin seems to help a lot with the nerve pain I didn't even know I had. I do know now since I feel better, but I didn't then. My neck doesn't seem to hurt as much, which is a big relief.
Well, kids will be home soon and Acer will need his lesson. Calli and Acer are working on a duet for the concert so we will be practicing that too. I can't believe the recital is next Saturday! I feel so behind!
Friday, November 28, 2014
Thanksgiving!
Thanksgiving was good. I went to a friend's house with another friend in tow and we had a lot of fun. it was a bit dicey driving home at first because it was black ice, but then it cleared up and we were fine. I got home and let the Peony girl out since she had been crated for several hours then she and I snuggled in my bed before everyone else came home.
I wanted to post new pictures of Peony I took recently, but my scan card is not working so I have to get another one. I will do that this week. Poor little card. I must have these pictures! It must have gotten damaged during the storm that damaged the phone a bit last fall. She looks so cute in her new pictures! Okay - yes, I simply adore my dog!
This was a tough year for me, but still, I am really thankful for so many good things in my life: family, friends, pets, students and their families, and last but not the least, a roof over my head. Thanks to the generosity of my friends, we will not lose the house. I am floored by how they came together to help us keep the house which in fact also keeps me teaching as I teach here at home. I know I don't teach full time, and won't until they find a cure or a medicine without massive side effects, but still, I need to teach the bit I do.
I hope your Thanksgiving was awesome too!
I wanted to post new pictures of Peony I took recently, but my scan card is not working so I have to get another one. I will do that this week. Poor little card. I must have these pictures! It must have gotten damaged during the storm that damaged the phone a bit last fall. She looks so cute in her new pictures! Okay - yes, I simply adore my dog!
This was a tough year for me, but still, I am really thankful for so many good things in my life: family, friends, pets, students and their families, and last but not the least, a roof over my head. Thanks to the generosity of my friends, we will not lose the house. I am floored by how they came together to help us keep the house which in fact also keeps me teaching as I teach here at home. I know I don't teach full time, and won't until they find a cure or a medicine without massive side effects, but still, I need to teach the bit I do.
I hope your Thanksgiving was awesome too!
Thursday, November 6, 2014
Fibro and the looming possible house foreclosure
We are in danger of losing the house. We are short $2058 to stop foreclosure proceedings. I can pay the monthly payments but I have yet to figure out how to pay the back stuff. Yeah, that would be the issue. I had hoped that in the safe deposit box would be some sellable jewelry, there isn't just mom's pearls, which are going to Abigail, and my necklace, and a few other things but nothing we can sell. We did find $124 Canadian but that paid for the drilling of the safe deposit box so that brings us back to well, the beginning.
My anxiety is high, I will admit and the pain levels are high too. I expected this because of the situation I am in. I don't want to sell the house, which is the extremely very very very very very last resort because I will not only lose my home, but my livelihood, teaching as I teach at home. The house is set up to teach and where else would I be able to teach? There are no studios in the area hiring (I tried) and apartments around here are not conducive for teaching plus I don't know how I would afford an apartment on disability alone so basically, I will be homeless, literally, if I don't somehow someway come up with a plan.
So I did. I will be talking to housemates this weekend but also I took a suggestion from a friend about setting up a gofundme.com account. I don't have super high expectations but so far, someone has donated $50 so hey, that is $50 more than what I had earlier. I am thrilled. I mean, I am so thankful for this help. I sure hope we do get more because this past summer was the worst. First Calli got super duper sick, then I got sick, it was just a horrible cycle of bad things. Now that things are back to normal, we stuck with this. I didn't even know because I have been speaking to the bank this whole time and well, they led me to mistakenly believe that because I was making regular payments again, that we were fine. I was wrong. I didn't ask the right questions. I know better. I have made some changes here at home that will prevent this from ever happening again so I feel better about that. I just need to somehow, someway get the rest of the money.
I am open to suggestions.
My anxiety is high, I will admit and the pain levels are high too. I expected this because of the situation I am in. I don't want to sell the house, which is the extremely very very very very very last resort because I will not only lose my home, but my livelihood, teaching as I teach at home. The house is set up to teach and where else would I be able to teach? There are no studios in the area hiring (I tried) and apartments around here are not conducive for teaching plus I don't know how I would afford an apartment on disability alone so basically, I will be homeless, literally, if I don't somehow someway come up with a plan.
So I did. I will be talking to housemates this weekend but also I took a suggestion from a friend about setting up a gofundme.com account. I don't have super high expectations but so far, someone has donated $50 so hey, that is $50 more than what I had earlier. I am thrilled. I mean, I am so thankful for this help. I sure hope we do get more because this past summer was the worst. First Calli got super duper sick, then I got sick, it was just a horrible cycle of bad things. Now that things are back to normal, we stuck with this. I didn't even know because I have been speaking to the bank this whole time and well, they led me to mistakenly believe that because I was making regular payments again, that we were fine. I was wrong. I didn't ask the right questions. I know better. I have made some changes here at home that will prevent this from ever happening again so I feel better about that. I just need to somehow, someway get the rest of the money.
I am open to suggestions.
Thursday, October 23, 2014
The Anniversary of Momma's passing
Well, the most hated day of the year has past and I survived with flying colors! For all my paralyzing fear of the day, October 18, I was fine. It was even a fun day as after lessons we drove to our friend's house and had dinner there. It was really good.
My anxiety goes into overdrive when the date of October 18 rolls around and as it inches closer, well, more and more fear creeps into me causing the extreme paralyzing fear. This year makes the 4th year since Momma passed away. I don't think she would be happy with the paralyzing fear but I also don't think she would be surprised since she did know what my anxiety was like. I get this way around her birthday too. It is just insane. It isn't like those are the only 2 days a year that I think and remember her, I think of her everyday.
I am proud that I did do well on that day. We had things planned and that was good but I didn't feel the urge to lie down and cry all day either, which is what I did the first 2 years after Momma died. All I did the first year, I think, was cry.
I talked to Heather BT about this paralyzing fear and she said when I feel it coming on to speak with her so I will. She is very calm and can help me calm the fear with such good things. I am so thankful. Kathy is the same way.
Here is an absolutely adorable picture of the Peony girl doggie. She makes everything bright in my life. I never knew, until Maisy, how wonderful a dog's love could be. Here is also a picture of Maisy. I miss her, but she is in Heaven with Momma so Momma isn't lonely for me. Maisy is the top picture and Peony is the bottom picture.
I love them both soooooo much!!!!! Peony is such a friendly little one. Maisy was friendly to kids and women. She was so afraid of men. Dogs just fill my heart full of love!!!!!!
My anxiety goes into overdrive when the date of October 18 rolls around and as it inches closer, well, more and more fear creeps into me causing the extreme paralyzing fear. This year makes the 4th year since Momma passed away. I don't think she would be happy with the paralyzing fear but I also don't think she would be surprised since she did know what my anxiety was like. I get this way around her birthday too. It is just insane. It isn't like those are the only 2 days a year that I think and remember her, I think of her everyday.
I am proud that I did do well on that day. We had things planned and that was good but I didn't feel the urge to lie down and cry all day either, which is what I did the first 2 years after Momma died. All I did the first year, I think, was cry.
I talked to Heather BT about this paralyzing fear and she said when I feel it coming on to speak with her so I will. She is very calm and can help me calm the fear with such good things. I am so thankful. Kathy is the same way.
Here is an absolutely adorable picture of the Peony girl doggie. She makes everything bright in my life. I never knew, until Maisy, how wonderful a dog's love could be. Here is also a picture of Maisy. I miss her, but she is in Heaven with Momma so Momma isn't lonely for me. Maisy is the top picture and Peony is the bottom picture.
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