Thanksgiving was good. I went to a friend's house with another friend in tow and we had a lot of fun. it was a bit dicey driving home at first because it was black ice, but then it cleared up and we were fine. I got home and let the Peony girl out since she had been crated for several hours then she and I snuggled in my bed before everyone else came home.
I wanted to post new pictures of Peony I took recently, but my scan card is not working so I have to get another one. I will do that this week. Poor little card. I must have these pictures! It must have gotten damaged during the storm that damaged the phone a bit last fall. She looks so cute in her new pictures! Okay - yes, I simply adore my dog!
This was a tough year for me, but still, I am really thankful for so many good things in my life: family, friends, pets, students and their families, and last but not the least, a roof over my head. Thanks to the generosity of my friends, we will not lose the house. I am floored by how they came together to help us keep the house which in fact also keeps me teaching as I teach here at home. I know I don't teach full time, and won't until they find a cure or a medicine without massive side effects, but still, I need to teach the bit I do.
I hope your Thanksgiving was awesome too!
Friday, November 28, 2014
Thursday, November 6, 2014
Fibro and the looming possible house foreclosure
We are in danger of losing the house. We are short $2058 to stop foreclosure proceedings. I can pay the monthly payments but I have yet to figure out how to pay the back stuff. Yeah, that would be the issue. I had hoped that in the safe deposit box would be some sellable jewelry, there isn't just mom's pearls, which are going to Abigail, and my necklace, and a few other things but nothing we can sell. We did find $124 Canadian but that paid for the drilling of the safe deposit box so that brings us back to well, the beginning.
My anxiety is high, I will admit and the pain levels are high too. I expected this because of the situation I am in. I don't want to sell the house, which is the extremely very very very very very last resort because I will not only lose my home, but my livelihood, teaching as I teach at home. The house is set up to teach and where else would I be able to teach? There are no studios in the area hiring (I tried) and apartments around here are not conducive for teaching plus I don't know how I would afford an apartment on disability alone so basically, I will be homeless, literally, if I don't somehow someway come up with a plan.
So I did. I will be talking to housemates this weekend but also I took a suggestion from a friend about setting up a gofundme.com account. I don't have super high expectations but so far, someone has donated $50 so hey, that is $50 more than what I had earlier. I am thrilled. I mean, I am so thankful for this help. I sure hope we do get more because this past summer was the worst. First Calli got super duper sick, then I got sick, it was just a horrible cycle of bad things. Now that things are back to normal, we stuck with this. I didn't even know because I have been speaking to the bank this whole time and well, they led me to mistakenly believe that because I was making regular payments again, that we were fine. I was wrong. I didn't ask the right questions. I know better. I have made some changes here at home that will prevent this from ever happening again so I feel better about that. I just need to somehow, someway get the rest of the money.
I am open to suggestions.
My anxiety is high, I will admit and the pain levels are high too. I expected this because of the situation I am in. I don't want to sell the house, which is the extremely very very very very very last resort because I will not only lose my home, but my livelihood, teaching as I teach at home. The house is set up to teach and where else would I be able to teach? There are no studios in the area hiring (I tried) and apartments around here are not conducive for teaching plus I don't know how I would afford an apartment on disability alone so basically, I will be homeless, literally, if I don't somehow someway come up with a plan.
So I did. I will be talking to housemates this weekend but also I took a suggestion from a friend about setting up a gofundme.com account. I don't have super high expectations but so far, someone has donated $50 so hey, that is $50 more than what I had earlier. I am thrilled. I mean, I am so thankful for this help. I sure hope we do get more because this past summer was the worst. First Calli got super duper sick, then I got sick, it was just a horrible cycle of bad things. Now that things are back to normal, we stuck with this. I didn't even know because I have been speaking to the bank this whole time and well, they led me to mistakenly believe that because I was making regular payments again, that we were fine. I was wrong. I didn't ask the right questions. I know better. I have made some changes here at home that will prevent this from ever happening again so I feel better about that. I just need to somehow, someway get the rest of the money.
I am open to suggestions.
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