My brother sent me an email yesterday that had me really thinking. Mom wants to move to Canada, I don't. He pointed out that Mom won't live forever and I should do what I want. What I want is to live near him, because he is my brother and I love his family. He has the most adorable kids, one who turned 10 today, and the other is 8. They live in Seattle, which is beautiful. I visited there last summer and Abby (the 10 year old) just cried and cried when we left. She couldn't understand why we don't live near them. They moved, I didn't. Mom really wants to move because she is afraid we won't bury her in Canada. Why she is thinking about it, I don't know. She is very healthy with the exception of the memory problem.
I am not sure what I am going to do. It is a rough decision. I am not sure what to do yet. I will let you know. Of course, I take advice.