I must make a correction.  Richard is NOT mad at me and IS speaking to me.  He called this afternoon and said he got all my messages but he was just so crazy busy he couldn't call me back.  He would get to his hotel and practically collapse.  I was soooooooooooo happy about that.  He sounded happy to talk to me and everything.  Life is better again.  Big brothers!  Silly little sisters.  I will try to email him only every other week because he said that was the easiest for him.  So that's what I will do!